I usually talk about pleasure in the language of energy and frequency. Today, let's borrow a lab coat (a sparkly one) and look at it through the brain.
At some point, a lot of us learned that pleasure is a reward. Something you earn once the serious business of being alive is done. Your own biology tells a gentler story.
The neuroscience of pleasure looks at how the brain produces enjoyment, and it involves several chemical signals working together. Dopamine drives wanting and motivation. The felt pleasure itself, or "liking," is linked to the brain's own opioids and endocannabinoids, such as anandamide. Serotonin is associated with contentment, the feeling of having enough.
Pleasure Was Never Meant to Be a Reward
Think about how early it starts. Finish your work, then you can play. Earn the vacation. Deserve the rest.
Pleasure becomes the dessert at the end of a life spent producing.
So we learn to second-guess the signals our bodies send. The craving for warmth, for slowness, for sweetness, for touch gets labeled indulgent or unserious, and we celebrate the people who sleep four hours, skip the meal, and push through.
Meanwhile, the body is quietly asking for something else.
Your Brain's Own Chemistry of Joy
Here's what neuroscience has spent the last few decades mapping, and what mystics have sensed for far longer: your body makes its own chemistry of motivation, contentment, ease, and bliss. It came built in.
Dopamine: The Chemistry of Wanting
Dopamine, often called the "pleasure chemical," is really more about wanting. It's the spark before the fire, the inhale before the kiss - your brain saying, this matters, move toward it.
When wanting runs low, the world can go a little flat. Colors dim, and nothing feels worth reaching for. Before you call that laziness, consider that it may simply be a system worn thin by a world that overstimulates without ever quite satisfying.
Serotonin: The Feeling of Enough
Serotonin is the chemistry we most often link with contentment - the deep exhale after a beautiful meal, the warmth of being held, the quiet knowing that right here, right now, nothing is missing.
What we haven't fully clocked is how rarely modern life lets us sit in that feeling. Long stretches of stress and too little daylight are both thought to weigh on this system.
Anandamide: The Bliss Molecule
Then there's the endocannabinoid system. Its messengers are cannabis-like molecules your body makes itself, among them anandamide, named from the Sanskrit word for bliss. Researchers think they play a part in the runner's high. I think of it as the chemistry of ease - when it hums, pleasure feels within reach.
Three systems, three ways of feeling alive. And the way most of us live now can leave all three a little hungry.
Why Modern Life Can Leave Us Feeling Flat
We scroll through tiny hits of novelty that keep the wanting switched on without ever letting it land. We sit still for hours, eat too fast, sleep too little, and wonder why ease feels so far away.
The result is a feeling so common we've almost normalized it: overstimulated and undernourished at the same time. Restless, but flat.
What we're craving has a name: pleasure - the real, embodied, present-tense kind that lives in the whole body.
Pleasure and Purpose
I believe pleasure is the foundation - the ground everything else grows from - and that when it has a real place in our lives, we come back to ourselves: softer, more generous, more present with the people we love.
When it goes missing, life slowly dims. Food stops tasting like much. The people you love feel far away, even sitting right next to you.
None of this is a moral failing. It's what can happen when we've been running on empty for a long time, and to me, it's an invitation to let yourself feel more, gently.
And if the dimming runs deep, or won't lift, please talk to a doctor. Reaching out is a form of care, too.
How to Bring More Pleasure Into Your Day
So what would it look like to make room for pleasure on purpose - the slow, full-bodied kind that leaves you nourished?
A spoonful of honey stirred into warm water, the scent of botanicals rising with the steam, and the choice to breathe it in before you drink. That's indulgence, and it's also your sense of smell talking straight to the limbic brain, where scent and emotion are wired together.
A piece of good chocolate melting on your tongue, eyes closed. Cacao is one of the very few foods in which researchers have found anandamide, the bliss molecule itself, alongside theobromine, a gentle stimulant. Whether those traces do much on their own is still an open question. The pleasure of the melt isn't.
This is what Élixir d'Extase and Chocolat de Joie are here for - small, delicious invitations to pleasure, made with plant allies people have turned to for a very long time.
Kanna is in both. Its alkaloids act on serotonin, and the San and Khoi peoples of southern Africa have used the plant for centuries to soften the edges of the world.
Blue lotus, the sacred flower of the Nile, is in the chocolate. Its alkaloids are thought to interact with dopamine receptors.
The chocolate is made with single-origin cacao from Manabí, Ecuador, from the tree Linnaeus named Theobroma - food of the gods.
The honey holds shatavari, damiana, vanilla, and Ceylon cinnamon, and rose is in both - each plant with its own long tradition of pleasure.
A gentle note on safety. Kanna acts on serotonin, so please don't combine Élixir d'Extase or Chocolat de Joie with SSRIs, SNRIs, MAOIs, or other serotonergic medication. If you take any prescription medication, ask your doctor first, and skip both if you're pregnant or breastfeeding. Chocolat de Joie contains coconut.
You're Allowed to Feel Good
Beneath all the science, there's a simpler truth.
You're allowed to feel good - now, today, in the middle of everything. You're allowed to pause, to taste, to close your eyes, to let warmth move through you, and to call that sacred.
To me, every craving for sweetness, warmth, closeness, and beauty is a little note from the most intelligent system you'll ever live in, telling you what it loves.
So build a ritual around your own pleasure. Choose it daily. Protect it.
Stay rooted in the beat of your own heart.
xo, Nana ✨
Frequently Asked Questions
Is dopamine the pleasure chemical?
Not exactly. Dopamine is more about wanting, motivation, and anticipation than about pleasure itself. The felt enjoyment, which researchers call "liking," is linked to other signals, including the brain's own opioids and endocannabinoids.
What is anandamide?
Anandamide is one of the body's own endocannabinoids, molecules that act on the same receptors as compounds in cannabis. Its name comes from the Sanskrit ananda, meaning bliss, and traces of it have been found in chocolate.
Does chocolate make you happy?
Chocolate contains theobromine, a gentle stimulant, and traces of anandamide, but the amounts are small and research on chocolate and mood is mixed. Much of its joy is sensory - the melt, the aroma, and the simple act of slowing down to taste it.
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